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    give life a meaning by knowing who you are

    Friday, October 23rd, 2009

    On this day of your life, I believe God wants you to know…

    .

    ….that without knowing who you are and why you are

    here, life has no meaning.

    Seek, then, to study the questions. Work to experience

    the grandest answers. Who You Are is an Individuation

    of Divinity. Why you are here is to demonstrate that.

    Today is going to offer you a perfect chance to do that.

    Watch. Listen. Before the end of this day, you will have

    a chance to be Divine. Indeed, someone is counting on

    you to.

    Love, Your Friend….

    Humanity is at a real crossroad…

    Friday, May 15th, 2009

    My dear friends…

    Last week in this space I offered the opinion that humanity would surely benefit now by starting to write a different story. I said that the world is receiving many “wake-up calls” these days, and I happen to believe that humanity is at a real crossroad. We are deciding about ourselves; about who we are as a species, and who we choose to be. These are spiritual decisions, not political ones, as I see it. And that is where you come in.

    Each of us has an important role to play in the creation of our collective tomorrows. I’m not sure that many of us appreciate the nature of the opportunity and the invitation now being placed before us.

    So much is happening in our world right now. They’re calling the swine flu a pandemic. Pirates are seizing huge cargo ships in the waters off Somalia every other day and no one seems to know how to stop them. The Taliban have announced a new offensive in Afghanistan against U.S. and NATO forces. The global community is dealing with a financial meltdown. And everyone’s idea about everything — God, life, marriage, parenting, schooling — is changing by the hour.

    The question is not whether our world is changing, the question is, who shall decide how it is changing? For that matter, who shall decide how you own life is changing?

    We have to come to some conclusions around here. I mean, some new conclusions, not the same old ones that have been driving humanity’s cultural story forever. We have to decide again who we are, where we are, why we are where we are, and what we are doing here. As a species, and as individuals.

    There may seem little that you can do to “decide” these things “as a species,” - but there is a great deal you can do to decide these things as an individual. And if enough individuals decide these things in a particular way, then the species itself is impacted and affected in a similar way. Our reach is much farther than we think it is; our influence much greater.

    The challenge is to take the individual decisions that most of us have already made about ourselves and apply them in our lives fully, fearlessly, absolutely, and completely. The challenge is to walk our talk, and to do so in such a way that there can be no mistake about our innermost thoughts and choices about who we are, where we are, why we are where we are, and what we are doing here.

    There is, of course, no “right” answer to these questions; there is no single appropriate response. Everybody’s response, whatever it is, is right, precisely because it is their response. There is also no final answer. Everybody’s answer is subject to revision in any moment. So it isn’t a you-made-your-bed-now-you-have-to-lie-in-it situation. You can decide one thing today and another thing entirely different tomorrow. But you must decide something. You have to make up your mind about these things, or you will be moving through your life willy-nilly, having no idea of any larger purpose or reason for being or doing anything.

    It is of enormous benefit when this larger purpose is what motivates your smaller choices in life — including something as simple as your choice around how to feel about a certain event or experience.

    What I am saying here, what I am trying to articulate through all of this, is that you and I are being invited to make some big decisions during these days and times, decisions having to do with a great deal more than what shirt shall I wear, what car should I buy, or even what person ought I marry…? These are the biggest decisions either of us will ever make in our lives. These decisions will affect the quality of our lives like no spouse or car or anything else in our physical world ever could.

    So let’s look at the first of these questions — who am I? — when next we meet here. Until then…make it a wonderful week.

    Love and Hugs,
    Neale.

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    The CwG Reader

    Further explorations of the Conversations with God material from the author

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    Neale Donald Walsch through the years has given hundreds of talks and written scores of articles revolving around the messages he received in his Conversations with God. Now, every seven days, we will present in this space a transcript or reprint of those presentations. We invite you to Copy and Save each one of them, creating a personal a collection of contemporary and uplifting spiritual thought which you may reference at any time. We hope you will find this a constant source of insight and inspiration.

    This week’s offering: A reflection on relationships offered in a series of commentaries during the days preceding Valentine’s Day, 2007. This commentary will continue over the next three editions of the Weekly Bulletin because the subject deserves all the attention we can give it.

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    Life’s Most
    Important Experience

    Relationship is the most important experience of our lives. Without it, we are nothing.
    Literally.
    That is because, in the absence of anything else, we are not.
    Fortunately, there is not a one of us who does not have a relationship. Indeed, all of us are in relationship with everything and everyone, all of the time. We have a relationship with ourselves, we have a relationship with our family, we have a relationship with our environment, we have a relationship with our work, we have a relationship with each other.
    In fact, everything that we know and experience about ourselves, we understand within the context that is created by our relationships. For this reason, relationships are sacred. All relationships. And somewhere within the deepest reaches of our heart and soul, we know this. That is why we yearn so for relationships-and for relationships of meaning. It is also, no doubt, why we have such trouble with them. At some level, we must be very clear how much is at stake. And so, we’re nervous about them. Normally confident, competent people fumble and fall, stumble and stall, crumble and call for help.
    Indeed, nothing has caused more problems for our species, created more pain, produced more suffering, or resulted in more tragedy, than that which was intended to bring us our greatest joy-our relationships with each other. Neither individually nor collectively, socially nor politically, locally nor internationally, have we found a way to live in harmony. We simply find it very difficult to get along-much less actually love each other.
    What’s this all about? What’s up here? I think I know. Not that I’m some kind of a genius, mind you, but I am a good listener. And I’ve been asking questions about this for a very long time. A few years ago, I began receiving answers. I believe those responses to have come from God. At the time I received them, I was so impacted and so impressed that I decided to keep a written record of what I was being given. That record became the Conversations with God series of books, which have become best sellers around the world.
    It is not necessary for you to join me in my belief about the source of my replies in order to receive benefit from them. All that is necessary is to remain open to the possibility that there just might be something that most humans do not fully understand about relationships, the understanding of which could change everything.
    Essentially, what God tells us in CWG is that we — most of us — enter into relationships for the wrong reasons. That is, for reasons having nothing to do with our overall purpose in life. When our reason for relationship is aligned with our soul’s reason for being, not only are our relationships understood to be sacred, they are rendered joyful as well.
    Joyful relationships. For far too many people, that phrase almost sounds like an oxymoron-a self-contradicting, mutually exclusive term. Something like military intelligence, or efficient government. Yet it is possible to have joyful relationships, and the extraordinary insights in the Conversations with God books show us how.

    Relationship’s Biggest Question

    You must never give up.
    No matter how hopeless it might seem, you must never give up Love’s Dream.
    And no, it is not required that living The Dream must hurt. If it hurts, you are not living The Dream, you are living a nightmare and calling it a dream, hoping that it will become one.
    Stop it. Stop the struggling. The Dream has no struggle in it. If you are struggling, you are not living The Dream.
    Now “struggle” does not mean the small discomforts or the once-in-a-while feelings of not-okayness that are encountered by any two people who have chosen to be together intimately. It does not mean the little differences that from time to time have to be worked out. “Struggle” means just that: struggle. Ongoing difficulty. Frequent and recurring and serious discord, disharmony, disagreement.
    “Struggle” means that things that ought to be simple become complex, moments which could easily be serene erupt into turmoil. Nervousness replaces excitement, sadness replaces bliss, walking on eggshells replaces walking on clouds.
    You are struggling in your relationship when wariness overcomes eagerness, when pain pushes happiness out of the room…and when this happens often. Not once in a while. Not now and then. Often.
    One can’t ever fully relax anymore. Just when it seems like, well, this isn’t so bad, I can make this work…boom…the door slams, the bomb drops, the sweetness crashes and reveals itself to be not the stuff of sturdiness that can be counted on, but an oh-so-fragile thing that cannot withstand even the gentle touch of intimacy.
    I am asked, more than any other single question about relationship: When is it time to leave? When is it time to quit?
    I am asked: How do I know I am not supposed to be here, learning something? How do I know that this is not all for my own good, my own evolution? How do I know that I am not just “giving up” — again…?
    I am asked: What does it take to make “love” work? And I answer, “Love should not be work. Love should be play. It should feel playful and joyful, not stressful.”
    The intimate relationships in many people’s lives have not been long lasting. Happily Ever After has not been a universal (or even a common) experience. Indeed, it must sometimes seem to many that there is just no way to do this thing called Relationship and do it well.
    People look in the mirror and ask, “Is it only me who has not been given the necessary equipment? It is only me who lacks sufficient understanding? It is only me who falls short on willingness or commitment or determination or skill or patience or selflessness or whatever-in-the-world-it-takes to make Happily Ever After work?”
    Or is it that human beings are simply chasing an impossible dream? Is The Dream of real and lasting and wonderfully joyful love nothing but a fantasy that can never be fulfilled?
    No. I don’t believe that. And I believe that people who have tried and tried and failed have, at least, the opportunity to learn from their experience. There is no such thing as a lost cause. Love’s Dream can be lived. That is God’s promise.
    There are couples who have lived it, who have made it to the Promised Land. Some found each other early in life, some found each other later, after much trial and error with others. All has not been perfect on their journey, all has not been smiles and laughter in every moment. But much of it has been. And all of it has been worth it. Every minute has been worth it.
    There are those who say you have to “work” at relationship. Anything worth having is worth working for, the mantra goes. Okay. Fair enough. But this should be the kind of “work” that feels soooo good to do. Like Barbra Streisand singing. Like Richard Gere dancing. Like Nancy Kerrigan on ice. Like Anna Pavlova and Vaslav Nijinsky and Mikhail Baryshnikov in ballet shoes. Like Roger Clemens throwing a baseball. Yes, there’s work involved…but oh, the joy of it, the sheer joy of it!
    Yes, love — real love, true love, lasting love — may be “work,” but it should be a work of art. It should be something you love to do. A wise person once said, “May you always love the loving you are doing.”
    Look at your relationship right now. Are you loving the loving you are doing?
    If you love the loving you are doing, it is not “work” in the sense of being a struggle. It is a joy. Working to create something is very much different from working to hold something together. Everyone who has done both knows the difference. You can feel the difference, and no one has to tell you what is going on.
    It has to do with effort and ease.
    You know if, in your relationship, you are at a place of effort or if you are at ease.
    Barbra Streisand sings effortlessly. The breathless grace of Nancy Kerrigan is effortless. That is precisely what makes it breathless grace. This is not to say that no “work” went into it. Surely it did. But joy came out of it. Work went in, and joy came out. When work goes in and joy does not come out, then “work” has become “effort.”
    This is the state of many relationships.
    When is enough enough?
    That question cannot be answered by anyone other than the person asking it. But the question rarely goes without answer. The issue is not whether the person asking the question KNOWS the answer, but whether the person HEEDS it.

    (This three-part series of reflections continues here next week.)

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    MONEY - LOVE - SEX - GOD

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    These are the Four Cornerstones of the Human Experience, in reverse order of importance, and these topics are discussed in the Truth Seminar - the first spiritual program ever created by Neale Donald Walsch.

    We’ve captured highlights of this presentation on a 3-disc set recorded at a retreat which Neale facilitated for a small group of people. Want to learn more about these subjects, and why “sex” is listed right next to “God” in importance in the human experience?

    If you’ve been wanting to attend a retreat led by Neale and have just not been able to find the time or the financial resources, here is a wonderful and practical alternative. Close your eyes and listen to this recording and it will be almost like “being there.”

    We are offering a special price for this abridged set: only $39.95 for a short time. Click here to “attend” this very special program by placing your order and start enjoying this wonderful visit with Neale Donald Walsch in The Truth Seminar. Click here to see a short (2 minute) clip of this program.

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    Neal Donald Walsh
    NOTE: The Weekly Bulletin is sent free of charge to anyone who asks for it. It is a publication of the ReCreation Foundation, a non-profit organization undertaking the work of sharing the message of Conversations with God with the world. That message is that the purpose of life is to recreate ourselves anew in the next grandest version of the greatest vision ever we held about Who We Are.
    The CwG Weekly Bulletin is prepared by Neale Donald Walsch, m.Claire, Geek Squared, LEP Graduates and other friends.

    Creating tomorrow with new powerful tools

    Wednesday, March 18th, 2009

    Notes from Neale…


    My dear friends…

    Former Vice President Al Gore, in testimony before the U.S. Congress this week, suggested that the planet will soon reach an irreversible “tipping point” of damage to the climate, a news report from CNN said.

    The network said that Gore told the Congress that the United States needs to join international talks on a treaty. “This treaty must be negotiated this year,” Gore told the Senate Foreign Relations Committee.

    The CNN report noted that committee chairman John Kerry of Massachusetts said public policy must change and respond to warnings from scientists who fear that a buildup of greenhouse gas emissions may prove permanent. “Frankly, the science is screaming at us,” he said. “Right now, the most critical trends and facts all point in the wrong direction.”

    The prospective harm from climate change includes permanent coastal flooding from rising sea levels, agricultural deterioration and the spread of tropical diseases to temperate climates, CNN reported that scientists are saying. I hope that you will do all that you can to promote the health of our planet.

    I know that these can be scary times. Yet if we stand firm in our understanding of the world and why it is the way it is, and of God, and how God is working with us every day to produce the experience of our own highest benefiting, we will not be frightened of the future—nor will we see the future as something that we are enduring. We will see it as something we are creating. And that will make all the difference.

    I hope you will join with me in Creating Tomorrow. There is a process by which we can do that—and that is much of what we will discuss in May when I present my next 5-day Intensive for the Conversations with God Foundation. The program will be offered May 20-24 in Baltimore, and will also feature a special opportunity for you to experience your own conversation with God.

    The Creating Tomorrow program will be laid out at this retreat—a way for you to recreate yourself anew in the next grandest version of the greatest vision ever you held about Who You Are. I’ll share with you new and powerful tools, specific steps you can take, right now, to alter the course of your life. Every day I try to think of new ways to make the extraordinary messages of CwG come alive in the 9-to-5 experience of regular people. The program I have designed for May is my latest permutation of that. Do come and join us! If ever there was a time to pay attention to the callings of your soul, this is it!
    Hugs,
    Neale.


    The CwG Reader

    Further explorations of the Conversations with God material from the author


    Neale Donald Walsch through the years has given hundreds of talks and written scores of articles revolving around the messages he received in his Conversations with God. Now, every seven days, we will present in this space a transcript or reprint of those presentations. We invite you to Copy and Save each one of them, creating a personal a collection of contemporary and uplifting spiritual thought which you may reference at any time. We hope you will find this a constant source of insight and inspiration.

    This week’s offering: In an article written on May 1, 2001, Neale answers critics who ask:
    How dare you say that you speak with the Voice of God?


    A few days after Communion with God — a book written entirely from God’s point of view — hit the bookstores back in October, reporters began calling me for interviews, and many of them led with the same question:

    Where do you get off speaking in the first person voice of God? Isn’t that just a bit presumptuous?

    It’s a fair question. While I am not the first person to have produced such a book (far from it, in fact), inquiring minds still want to know: how can I — or for that matter, anyone — dare to place words in God’s mouth in this way?

    The first thing I answer when asked this question is that I am not placing words in God’s mouth. God is placing words in mine.

    Furthermore, God is doing the same thing with all of us. I am not the only person on the planet speaking God’s words. All of us are in Communion with God all of the time.

    If you have ever spoken of love to any other person, you have spoken in the First Person Voice of God.

    If you have ever spoken of compassion to a person in need of compassion, you have spoken in the First Person Voice of God.

    If you have ever spoken of forgiveness to a person who seeks forgiveness (or even to one who does not — perhaps especially to one who does not), you have spoken in the First Person Voice of God.

    If you have ever argued for fairness, called for justice, pleaded for peace, recommended mercy, or proposed a win-win solution to anyone, you have spoken in the First Person Voice of God.

    If you have ever consoled or comforted, you have spoken in the First Person Voice of God.

    If you have ever encouraged or motivated, you have spoken in the First Person Voice of God.

    If you have ever uplifted or congratulated, you have spoken in the First Person Voice of God.

    If you have ever renewed another’s faith (especially in themselves), restored another’s hope, revived another’s dream, you have spoken in the First Person Voice of God.

    If you have ever respected another’s truth, resolved another’s doubt, removed another’s fear, recalled another’s goodness, recited another’s attributes, reduced another’s apprehension, relieved another’s mind, re-lived another’s pain, or remained another’s friend, you have spoken in the First Person Voice of God.

    It is not difficult to speak in the First Person Voice of God. It is more difficult not to. You have to step way out of Who You Really Are.

    When you let God place words in your mouth, you always speak the truth, you always speak with sensitivity and awareness, you always speak of ways to resolve, not who to blame.

    You always speak your mind, but you always speak from the heart, and you always speak with the gentleness of your soul.

    Every moment is a moment of Communion with God, and we can experience it as that if we truly wish to. That is the great promise of God, and that is the greatest experience in Life.


    Q&A with Readers

    Exchanges from the Ask Neale section of the Messenger’s Circle at Neale Donald Walsch’s personal website, and from the book Question and Answers on Conversations with God.


    Dear Neale: Thank you for your wonderful book! I have read it again and again, and given it to so many friends that the lady at the bookstore must think I own stock in the publishing company! I am wondering about something. I know what I’ve gotten out of the book, but I’m curious to know what you got out of it! Would you give us your personal experience of this? Thanks! Mary, De¬troit, MI.

    Hi, Mary! Well, you’ve asked a question that is just about the most frequently asked of all. Every talk show host who has inter¬viewed me has asked me that question, and every newspaper reporter. You’re the first reader, though.

    First, let me tell you that I read the book nearly every day. To me, it is like a book written by someone else. I often read it and feel no sense of connection with it at all, in the sense of an author re-reading his work. It has been that way from the very beginning. Always it has felt as it I had very little to do with this process, except to be there for whatever was supposed to happen. So the book has taught me a great deal, and been a source of continued in¬spiration to me.

    I think the most important thing I got out of the book was a deep sense of God’s abiding love. I learned in an extraordinary way of God’s unremitting, unconditional love and total acceptance of us, even the worst of us. This came through to me even as I was “writing” the book by the bare fact that I was writing it. I mean, by the earthly standards of many people (including my own), I am the last person who deserves to have been chosen to put this informa¬tion into a book. Yet I was chosen, and I have put it into book form. So by that measure alone, I am clear that God loves without condi¬tion, that God rejects not even the least or the worst of us, and that all we need do to understand and experience that salvation is to ac¬cept it, claim it, honor it, and hold it as true.

    Now, there are those who disagree with me, Mary. Many, in fact, do. They say that God’s word and God’s law and God’s love is worthless and pointless if there was no such thing as the possibility of God’s rejection. They say that the only way to God is through obedience to God’s commands, adherence to God’s laws, and, in some theological constructions, acceptance of God’s Son. Failure to do any or all of these things means certain damnation, they say, and we’d better be aware of that, and ready for it, because we’ll get what’s “coming to us” if we don’t watch out.

    In fact, we not only had better watch out, we’d better not cry. We’d better not pout, I’m tellin’ you why . . .

    Oh, sorry . . . that’s a different myth.

    You see, Mary? Every myth we create, we create around a sys¬tem of judgment, around a construction of reward and punishment. It is inconceivable to us that there is a being in the universe, in re¬alty or in my theology, who could accept us just the way we are, and just the way we choose to be. That is because we cannot believe in the ultimate purpose of life. We believe that the purpose of life is to follow God’s law, do as God wants, and, essentially, please God.

    Yet pleasing God is not the purpose of life. Only an egomaniacal deity would create beings whose essential purpose was to please Him. And only an insane ego maniac would then add such treachery and misery to the mix as life contains in order to make it virtually guaranteed that his created beings would stumble and fall. And only an incredibly cruel insane ego maniac would go further, say¬ing it doesn’t matter whether they fall or not, because they have already fallen! Before birth!

    As improbable as this scheme might seem, that is the theologi¬cal construction which millions upon millions of people have laid upon their so-called “loving” God. So I think the most important thing the books did for me, and do for me daily, Mary, is free me from the shackles of a belief in an angry, vindictive, judgmental God. I am now more open to creating my life as I want it, not as I imagined it had to be.

    The ironic part of all this is that I am now acting more in ac¬cordance with what the old teachings asked of me than I was when I was told to act that way or else. In other words, I am find¬ing that “being good” (whatever “good” means) feels, well . . . good, when it isn’t having to be done because I’ll be condemned if I don’t.

    Put another way, I tend to rise to higher expectations of me, and aspirations for me, when those expectations and aspirations are mine, not someone else’s. This is a great secret which God un¬derstands, but which man refuses to believe: we are basically good, not basically bad. We do not need an angry, vindictive, punishing God to scare us into doing what is “right,” act in the in¬terests of others, or “show up” grandly. Our basic nature—human nature—is loving, and kind. We are taught greed. We are taught fear. We are taught ugliness, prejudice, violence. We are love, and we are taught to be some thing else!

    The second most important thing I learned from the books is that there is only one reason to do a thing—any thing—and that is to be and to decide, to create and to fulfill Who I Really Am, and Who I now Choose to Be. You see, I thought there were all sorts of reasons that I was supposed to do this or that. My father told me. The world expects it of me. God demands it of me. Whatever. Now I’m clear that God demands nothing, the world’s expecta¬tions are distorted and misplaced, and my father’s orders no longer need to be followed.

    We are in this cosmic game of golf, and there’s no one keeping score but us. Who we are, and who we turn out to be, is a matter be¬tween us and ourselves. No one else cares. No one else even knows. Not really. And God, who does know, simply observes, without judgment, all the while, of course, making all of His power available to us, if we will but use it. We are left to our own choices. No instructions, no orders, no commandments. That makes us wholly responsible, completely in charge, and totally at cause in the matter of Who We Turn Out to Be.

    This can be empowering, or terribly scary, depending upon a lot of other thoughts a person might have about the universe and how it works. For me it was terrifically empowering.

    So the book has served me in these two important ways, and many other ways, of course, too, but in these ways in particular. I hope that has answered your question.

    Neal Donald Walsh
    NOTE: The Weekly Bulletin is sent free of charge to anyone who asks for it. It is a publication of the ReCreation Foundation, a non-profit organization undertaking the work of sharing the message of Conversations with God with the world. That message is that the purpose of life is to recreate ourselves anew in the next grandest version of the greatest vision ever we held about Who We Are.
    The CwG Weekly Bulletin is prepared by Neale Donald Walsch, m.Claire, Geek Squared, LEP Graduates and other friends.

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